ר‘ אברהם Greenwald first saw the Rebbe when he attended the Rebbe's wedding in Warsaw in 1929. He was thirteen.
He had lost both his parents at a young age and was brought up by his mother's cousin, the famous תלמיד חכם , הרב מנחם Zamba. When Rabbi Zamba attended the Rebbe’s wedding, along with hundreds of other רבנים and תלמדי חכמים , young אברהם went along.
The day after the wedding, Rabbi Zamba and the boy went to the Rebbe's hotel room to personally wish him מזל טוב . The Rebbe received them warmly and as they were about to leave, after a friendly and lively תורה conversation, the Rebbe turned to אברהם and asked, "Do you know why it is a מנהג by many חסידים to make a special celebration on the fifth night of חנוכה ?"
Neither of them answered...so the Rebbe continued,
"The purpose of the חנוכה lights is to light up the רוחניות darkness of the outside world. The fifth night of חנוכה is the darkest because it is the only night of the יום טוב that can never fall on שבת . And this is the job of every איד , whether in Warsaw or in London, to light up even the darkest places."
Time passed. אברהם got סמיכה , married and had five beautiful children. But Poland wasn't a very safe place anymore for the אידן .
The Germans, ימח שמם , conquered Poland. Together with the willing help of the Polish people, they sent millions of אידן into concentration camps where they suffered terribly and murdered most of them. ר‘ אברהם was no exception. He suffered for years through several concentration camps and his wife and children were killed. After the war he was broken, physically and mentally.
An uncle of his, ר‘ משה Greenwald, lived in America. When he heard that ר‘ אברהם was still alive, he offered to buy him plane tickets and finally managed to convince him to come to America.
Then after a year or so, in 1948, he introduced ר‘ אברהם to a woman who also had lost everything in the holocaust and they agreed to marry. But before the wedding, the כלה 's רב , Rabbi Kopel Shvarts of Toronto who was close to the פריערדיקער רבי took ר‘ אברהם to New York to receive a ברכה .
The פריערדיקער רבי cried tears of pain when he heard what ר‘ אברהם had been through. He gave him a ברכה and suggested that since he had been at his son-in-law's (the Rebbe’s) wedding he should go to visit him as well.
When they entered the Rebbe's room the Rebbe recognized him immediately and began to ask about ר‘ אברהם ’s cousin, Rabbi Zamba who had been murdered by the Nazis, ימח שמם . He concluded by saying, "Since the Rebbe, my father in law, sent you to me I will say a דבר תורה about חנוכה , as we are in the month of כסלו . It is known that there is מנהג by those who follow the בעל שם טוב to make a special celebration on the fifth night of חנוכה . Why? Because that night never can fall on שבת which is the greatest darkness. That is the power of the lights of חנוכה and the duty of every איד , no matter where he is, whether in New York or in London, to illuminate the darkest רוחניות situations."
ר‘ אברהם was amazed that the Rebbe repeated exactly what he had said twenty years ago in Warsaw. And he was confused as to why he again included London. He didn't dream of the importance it would have to him one day.
Eventually, after his חתונה , ר‘ אברהם settled in Toronto working with Satmar חסידים as a רב and teacher and he had three children, two boys and a girl.
Unfortunately, many Satmar חסידים were against the Rebbe and Lubavitcher חסידים and spoke not nicely about them. Even though ר‘ אברהם lived among them, he and his children never spoke bad against חב“ד .
His children grew and eventually his son, משה חיים , met a nice girl and they became engaged. ר‘ אברהם decided to take him to the Rebbe for a ברכה before his wedding as he had done years ago.
A month before the חתונה in 1969, he again was standing before the Rebbe's door, but this time with his own son.
As soon as they entered, the Rebbe immediately recognized him and said "Well, it's about time, after a twenty year break!" ר‘ אברהם was astounded but after a few seconds he recovered enough to give the Rebbe a small page upon which he wrote all his requests.
(To be continued)