Sto
ries of רבצין חי' מושקא
Really Feel for the Other Person
The Friday night before she passed away was a bitterly cold night. During a conversation with her visitor, the רבצין mentioned, "When I think that you have to go out [to go home], I become cold."
We should care so much about other people that we feel for them and even anticipate their discomfort. We can accomplish this by putting our own considerations aside, as the רבצין did on this night when she was already very sick, and focusing entirely on the other person.
The Importance of Humility
One year, in honor of her birthday, the Lubavitch Women's Organization sent the רבצין a beautiful bouquet of flowers. Together with the bouquet was an envelope that contained a list of names of people who were in need of a ברכה . The intention was that the list be given to the Rebbe.
The person who accepted the bouquet gave it to the רבצין and submitted the envelope to the Rebbe. The Rebbe looked at the envelope, upon which the רבצין‘ס name had been written, and asked why it was not given to the רבצין . The person explained that it contained a list of names of people who were in need of a ברכה . The Rebbe responded, "Nu, she can also בענטש them!"
But when the רבצין communicated an answer from the Rebbe, she would always convey it word for word, saying, "This was the exact answer." She refused to ever add an explanation but only repeated the Rebbe’s words exactly.
No matter our own greatness or importance, our own abilities or position of power, being humble is an מדה .
In the זכות of the רבצין , may we immediately be privileged to see the conclusion of the coming of משיח now!
Caring for Every Jew
This story was told by Rabbi Halberstam who worked for רבצין חי‘ מושקא for 18 years and was also her driver.
The Rebbe asked Rabbi Halberstam to make sure that the רבצין got some fresh air every day. Rabbi Halberstam and the רבצין would usually drive out to a park in Long Island. One day, as they were driving, they saw that one of the streets they usually drove along was closed and they had to take a detour along a different street. As they were driving along that street, they suddenly heard the sounds of a woman screaming in Russian. At the next traffic light, the רבצין asked Rabbi Halberstam “I heard a woman screaming; can you go back and see what that was about?"
They drove back to the beginning of the street. There they saw a woman standing on the curb and crying, while near her movers were carrying furniture and household items from a house and loading them on to a truck. Near the truck stood an official looking man holding a clipboard. Rabbi Halberstam parked the car and went to ask the official what was going on. The official explained that the woman hadn’t paid her rent for many months so she was now being evicted from her home.
When Rabbi Halberstam told the רבצין all this, she asked him to go back and inquire from the official how much the woman owed and she also asked him not to say anything to the family being evicted. Rabbi Halberstam didn’t understand why the רבצין wanted him to do this, but he did exactly what she asked.. The sum that the family owed was approximately $6,700. The official said that if he received the payment, his men would carry everything back into the house. When Rabbi Halberstam informed the רבצין of the details, she took out her checkbook and, to his amazement, wrote out a check for the full amount, and asked him to give it to the official.
With an amazed look on his face the official instructed his workers to take everything back into the house. The רבצין immediately urged Rabbi Halberstam to quickly drive away, before the woman realized what had happened.
Rabbi Halberstam was completely amazed at what he had seen and later, when they were in the park, he could not hold back his curiosity anymore and asked the רבצין what had prompted her to give such a large sum to a total stranger?
"Do you really want to know?" asked the רבצין .
"Yes, I do," he replied.
"Then I'll tell you," she said. "Once, when I was a young girl, my father (the פריערדיקער רבי ) took me for a walk in the park. He sat me down on a bench and started to tell me about the idea of השגחה פרטית . Every time -- said my father -- when something causes us to change from our normal routine, there is a reason for this; every time we see something unusual, there is a purpose in why we've been shown this sight.
"Today," continued the רבצין , "when I saw the 'Detour' sign instructing us to change from our regular route, I remembered my father's words and immediately thought to myself: Every day we drive by this street; suddenly, the street's closed off and we're sent to a different street. What is the purpose of this? How is this connected to me? Then I heard the sound of a woman crying and screaming. I realized that we have been sent along this route for a purpose."